If you’re one of these guys who think that being a second fiddle to their partners is like a curse that would forever impair their existence, better think again. There’s more to life than proving you’re always better than your woman. The truth is, in many instances, the exciting part of living in this world comes when you allow yourself to be humbled.

She earns more than you. The imbalance of domestic economics often leads to serious communication mishaps. In some instances, it puts a heavy strain to the relationship that it is forced to eventually break down. Since the responsibility of keeping a livelihood always falls on the lap of men, society dictates that they should never let up in carrying the financial burden of their respective families. Because the moment they slow down and get overtaken by their partners salary-wise, they become a fair game for ridicule. People will mock you as a slouch. They will brand you as a useless piece of manlike creation.

Yet, such scenario in these modern days is not supernatural in nature. More opportunities are being accorded to women in the workplace. In fact, because of their flexibility in handling various tasks, women even earn influential positions and juicy paychecks. Having a wife or a girlfriend who brings home more dough, therefore, shouldn’t be a dilemma to you. Forget about insecurity and be proud of her accomplishment. If you know how to share wealth equally, her success should also be your success. If you think of realizing your future goals expeditiously, every little thing that she can chip in will matter. Who bankrolls more shouldn’t be a point to dispute with as long as you know who calls the shots during critical situations.

So what if she earns six to seven figures per month while you settle for a paltry salary. So what if you get relegated to the backseat as she hogs the spotlight. What counts most is that you’re both doing your part in having decent jobs and that you mutually support each other.

Think of J. Lo, who commands a whopping $9 million per film. She never considered her stature and her money as hindrances in marrying former husband Chriss Judd, a choreographer. Chris, on his part, didn’t allow his partner’s larger-than-life image to intimidate her. Unfortunately, for whatever reason, they didn’t last. Another relationship that has gone through the odds is that of Julia Roberts and Danny Moder. The actress receives $20 million per flick while her cameraman husband is way beyond her income bracket. Income though is inconsequential to both of them. Right now, they’re living contentedly as they expect the coming of their first-born.

She is more intellectually gifted than you. She loves to read books; you love to play sports. She’s a bit nerdy; you’re learning towards the athletic side. She engages in intellectual pursuits; you go for the more physically demanding activities. Yours is a mismatched way of doing things. More likely than not, you’ll be getting the flak for not measuring up to her mental standard. The toughest part here is asserting your presence. After all, you need intelligence to get to where you want to be professionally. If your woman is brainier, chances are she’ll most likely go farther in her career. But do not be dismayed. For you can prove your value without having to compete or go evenhanded with her brilliance. You can be successful in doing the thing that you do best. Start by believing in yourself. If you’re a basketball player, for example, you can try your hand in gaining a stint in the play-for-pay league. Using your brawn and athleticism, you can attain the same degree of success as your corporate achieving partner.